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Tuesday, March 28, 2006

Who are you?

April 5th
BETA
Chapter 2 – A New Identity In Christ
. A circuit preacher was making rounds from one settlement to another on the western frontier of America in the late nineteenth century. A raiding party had left a young Greek immigrant boy orphaned with nobody to care for him. The preacher had no choice but to take him along. Peter turned out to be an incorrigible kid, and it became obvious that the preacher couldn’t do his work and provide for him.

The preacher heard about a Christian family named Smith that had recently settled near one of his routes. He asked them if the would prayerfully assume responsibility for the boy and they agreed. The Smith family had a son named Sammy who was about Peter’s age, and they became the best of friends, even though Peter continued to be difficult.

Mr. and Mrs. Smith warned the boys not to go near the swamp that was believed to be contaminated. Peter wouldn’t listen, and he managed to work his way through the barbed wire fence and go swimming. He must have scratched himself on the rusty fence because he fell deathly ill with an infection and had to be quarantined. Peter’s life hung in the balance, and Sammy could only watch and pray as he peered at Peter through an open door. Then one afternoon, Mr. and Mrs. Smith had to make a trip to town to get some supplies. They warned Sammy not to go neat Peter; but the they came home, they found the two boys fast asleep in each other’s arms. Nobody understands the providence of God, but in this case Peter got well and Sammy got sick. So sick, in fact, that he died.

The circuit preacher had all but forgotten about Peter when several years later he was making his rounds near the Smith home. Recalling the forgotten incident, he decided to make a visit to see what happened to the little orphaned Greek Boy. As he approached the farm, he recognized Mr. Smith, but he didn’t recognize the young man by his side. “By the way, whatever happened to that incorrigible kid I dropped off a few years back?” he asked Mr. Smith.

Mr. Smith reached up and put his arms around the shoulders of the young man and said, “I want you to meet Peter Smith. We adopted him/”

CELEBRATE RECOVERY
Principle 2 – Earnestly believe that God exists, that I matter to Him, and that He has the power to help me recover
.Step 2: We came to believe that a power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity. Scripture: Philippians 2:13 “For it is God who works in you to will and to act according to his good purpose.”
Paddy at 7:54 PM
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Thursday, March 23, 2006

Do you wear a mask?

March 29th
BETA
Chapter 1 – The Good News.
Have you ever thought about who you really are and why you were born? Are you just a physical being who makes a living, hoping for a little pleasure in life, then dies? Are you the person you pretend to be? If others got to know the real you, would they like you? Perhaps the following expresses how you feel:

Don’t be fooled by me. Don’t be fooled by the face I wear. I wear a mask. I wear a thousand masks – masks that I am afraid to take off, and none of them are me.

Pretending is an art that is second nature to me, but don’t be fooled. For my sake, don’t be fooled. I give the impression that I am secure, that all is sunny and unruffled within me as well as without, that confidence is my name and coolness my game: that the water is calm and I am in command, ant that I need no one. But don’t believe me, please. My surface may seem smooth, but my surface is my mask, my ever-varying and ever-concealing mask.

Beneath lies no smugness, no compliance. Beneath dwells the real me in confusion, in fear, in aloneness. I hide that, I don’t want anybody to know it. I panic at the thought of my weakness and fear being exposed. That’s why I frantically create a mask to hide behind – nonchalant, sophisticated façade – to help me pretend, to shield me from the glance that knows. But such a glance is precisely my salvation, my only salvation, and I know it. That is, it’s followed by acceptance if it’s followed by love.

It’s the only thing that can liberate me from myself, from my own self-built prison wall, from the barriers I so painstakingly erect. It’s the only thing that will assure me of what I can’t assure myself – that I am really something…

“Who am I?” You may wonder. I am someone you know very well. I am every man you meet. I am every woman you meet. I am every child you meet. I am right in front of you. Please – love me!”


CELEBRATE RECOVERY
Principle 1 - Realize I’m not God
. ; I admit that I am powerless to control my tendency to do the wrong thing and my life is unmanageable. “I know that nothing good lives in me, that is, in my sinful nature. For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it
to bring this good news to others, both by my example and by my words.
Paddy at 8:32 AM
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Wednesday, March 15, 2006

"BETA" - New 12 week series begins

March 29th
The Beta discipleship program teaches new and mature Christians alike the answer to What's next? What are the steps after we have taken that first step of giving ourselves wholly to God?This is the comprehensive, new and exciting group series that was designed to help make our journey in Christianity both practical and determined. The Beta DVD by Neil T. Anderson addresses the following topics: We are children of God, invited to come boldly into His presence; even after we're saved we must actively seek the truth of God's Word; when we forgive from the heart, we are set free from our past, the more we know of God's Word, the less we experience anger, anxiety, fear and depression.This series can help people identify and break free from personal or spiritual bondage. What makes this series unique is that it was deliberately patterned after the highly successful Alpha model.
Paddy at 4:13 PM
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All Grown Up! Session Wind Up

Wednesday March 22nd

CHANGES THAT HEAL

Chapter 16 – Learning to become mature adults. Have you developed these skills needed to become a mature adult? 1) Reevaluate beliefs, 2) Disagree with authority figures, 3) See parents and authority figures realistically, 4) Make your own decisions, 5) Practice disagreeing, 6) Deal with your sexuality, 7) Give yourself permission to be equal with your parents.

We all have broken relationships with God, others and ourselves, Because of this; we develop symptoms that are felt on an emotional level and lived out in our spiritual lives. For this reason we need a spiritual solution. The solution is love (1Cor 13:13) and relationship reconciliation. This is the basis of all healing. We all need to work on our ability to attach to others in healthy ways.

Here are some points on how you will accomplish these tasks.
Work on your ability to attach to others so that you can have your empty heart filled.
Work on setting boundaries so you can own your own life.
Work on confessing and receiving forgiveness so you can accept yourself and others.
Work on assuming adulthood so you can live your life whole and fulfilled as God intended.



CELEBRATE RECOVERY
Principle 8 - Yield myself to be used by God to bring this good news to others
, both by my example and by my words.
Step 12: Having had a spiritual experience as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to others, and practice these principles in all our affairs.
Scripture: Galatians 6:1 “If someone is caught in a sin, you who are spiritual should restore him gently. But watch yourself, or you also may be tempted.”
Paddy at 4:03 PM
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Tuesday, March 07, 2006

Childish Behavior

Wednesday March 15th

CHANGES THAT HEAL
Chapter 15 – When we Fail to Grow up.
We are all born Children under adult authority, but over time we are expected to become adults and take charge of our lives. This task is not always easy. Some of us never accomplish it. Do any of these symptoms affect your life right now? Inordinate need for approval, fear of disapproval, guilt, sexual struggles, fear of failure, need for permission, “you can’t do that” syndrome, feelings of inferiority, competitiveness, loss of power, no equal differences, black & white thinking, judgmentalism, anxiety.

Do you feel like a child or less than an adult with certain people? Do you know why you feel this way? Can you be an adult in some areas but not in others?


CELEBRATE RECOVERY
Principle 8 - Yield myself to be used by God to bring this good news to others,
both by my example and by my words.
Step 12: Having had a spiritual experience as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to others, and practice these principles in all our affairs.
Scripture: Galatians 6:1 “If someone is caught in a sin, you who are spiritual should restore him gently. But watch yourself, or you also may be tempted.”
Paddy at 6:58 PM
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